Sex as a Commodity

Match.com, and its association with Dr. Phil McGraw (who has signed up to place his imprimatur on the prospective “matches”) has been advertised all over the television dial. The founder of Match.com, Gary Kremen, chief executive of Grant Media LLC, made the dot.com deal of the century. His sale of Sex.com to “anonymous buyers” (potentially one of the most lucrative sites on the Web because of its provocative name) for $12 million in cash and stock ranks as one of the most expensive Web domain name transfers ever!According to CNN, “The new owners said in the statement that they plan to transform Sex.com in ‘the market-leading adult entertainment destination,’ which they said would include ‘adult dating opportunities,’ sex and relationship advice, erotica, video-on-demand and live chat.”The site makes money selling banner ads pointing to online pornography sites and Kremen will be staying aboard as an “adviser” to the site.Here you have it, the ultimate goal of the 1960′s sexual revolution: sex without loving commitments, obligations, complications; pure sex for recreation. There is no differentiation between the sacred and the profane with respect to sexuality any more. Not only has the internet eliminated the notion of “adult bookstores and entertainment” being way off the main street, check your local University course handbook and you’ll find courses in perversions and pornography presented in as positive a perspective as anti-United States politics!The American Psychological Society has published articles which explain that sexual relations between adult men and minor boys is largely a positive issue for the children involved – stating that the only real negatives come from oppressed members of Western Society. Planned Parenthood evidently has a policy of not reporting the molestation of minor females who come in for abortions when the sperm-donor is an adult male.

Many school systems around the country will take children out of school for abortions and birth-control without parental knowledge or permission.

Family groceries in almost every town in America, as well as sundries kiosks at airports, will place so-called mainstream magazines with blatantly erotic photos and tag-lines on their covers, at the check-out stands or magazine racks in clear view of children.

Our public schools indoctrinate children on “owning their own sexuality” (when they can’t legally own anything else) with sex-ed statements like, “You will know when you’re ready for sex.” Yet, if a child comes to public school with a bible in hand, that student will be descended upon as though they came in with a weapon of mass destruction.

It’s one thing when we can no longer count on our institutions to shore up basic values and morals about sexuality – in fact, they’ve largely become the enemy – but we can’t even count on our neighbors! I remember when I would chide a caller about being over-protective and not allowing their child to go to a sleep-over. No more. I now chide callers when they don’t pick their kids up at the end of the evening. With the virtual collapse of common sense and common values, children are at risk even at the homes of their friends. Sadly, there are a lot of parents who believe co-ed sleep-overs are cute and harmless and that supervision is unnecessary because “kids will do what they’re going to do and it is better that they do it with a warm roof over their heads.”