Reuters’ Julie Steenhuysen wrote a news essay recently which was a real shocker. She quoted Janis Wolak of the Crimes Against Children Research Center at the University of New Hampshire in Durham:
A lot of the characterizations that you see in Internet safety information suggest that sex offenders are targeting very young children and using violence and deception against their victims….
Especially since social networking sites became popular, people are suggesting that these offenders are using information to stalk and abduct their victims. We are not seeing those types of cases. The great majority of cases we have seen involved young teenagers, mostly 13, 14, 15 year old girls who are targeted by adults on the Internet who are straightforward about being interested in sex.
From the perspective of the victim, these are romances.
Among the study’s other findings:
* Internet offenders pretended to be teenagers in only 5% of the crimes studied.
* Nearly 75% of victims who met offenders did so more than once.
* Youths at risk have “buddy lists” including strangers, and they discuss sex online with strangers.
* Boys who are gay or questioning their sexuality are more susceptible to Internet-initiated sex crimes than other populations, resulting in 15% of criminal cases.
Other than religious institutions, there is virtually nothing in our society that elevates sexuality to a spiritual status. This is the result of a society which takes kids out of school (without parental notification) for abortions; which has peer sex classes showing how to put condoms on bananas; which has “sex fairs” at major colleges and universities; which has porn as mainstream, primetime television and advertising; which has practically naked models in store windows for Abercrombie & Fitch and Victoria’s Secret; which has families repeatedly torn apart by busy, “two parent career” homes, divorce, re-marriage, shack-ups, and other adult misbehaviors that emotionally devastate children who look elsewhere for love and comfort.
What is normalized is yearned for by children who want to be “adults.”