On Monday, I wrote about the event in Massachusetts that you’ve all heard about by now. Several South Hadley, Massachusetts high school students are being tried on felony charges for the harassment of a high school freshman which led to her suicide. It was worse than harassment – it was persecution, both physical and mental, and in the full view of other students and teachers. No one did anything to stop them, not even fellow students. Disgusting, really.
What I want you parents to do is to teach your children to stand between evil and the innocent, even if they risk being ostracized or worse. It is only when people stop just standing by that evil will be squelched.
My son came home from middle school one day to say he was in trouble because he was in a fight. I asked what happened. He told me that some kid was picking on another kid and it got physical. I asked him what happened then? He said that he got into it with the bully. I asked him who won. He looked down at his shoes and muttered “I did.”
I gave him high fives, made his favorite dinner, and sent my husband in to the school the next day to make it clear to the principal that we expected the bully (and not our son) to be punished. I sent my husband, because he is more laid back than I (if you get my drift).
We can have a million court cases and school suspensions. But it is only when parents teach their children to intervene that these bullies will be brought to their knees. They count on the cowardice of your children for their freedom to torment. Tell your children to band together if necessary and do the right thing.